Choose the Right Relay
Choose the Right Relay combines movement with simple gospel decision-making. It works well when leaders want an activity that feels energetic but still leads naturally into a discussion about wise choices, kindness, honesty, and following Jesus Christ.
How To Run It
- Make simple cards with choices or situations such as telling the truth, sharing, teasing, helping, or obeying a parent.
- Place the cards in one stack, basket, or pile at the starting line.
- Set up two categories at the far end of the room such as "Choose the Right" and "Needs a Better Choice."
- Split the group into teams and have one child from each team take the top card from the stack, run it to the category they think is correct, and place it there.
- A leader quickly checks the choice, then the next child in line takes a new card and goes.
- After a few rounds, stop and read some of the cards together so the group can explain why the choice fits that category.
- Finish with a short testimony or discussion about how small choices shape who we become.
Sample Card Ideas
- I tell the truth even when I am nervous.
- I leave someone out on purpose.
- I help clean up without being asked.
- I speak kindly when I feel frustrated.
- I hide a mistake and blame someone else.
Printable Choice Cards
Print these cards, cut them apart, and use them in the relay. Children can race to place each card under the right heading.
Choice 1
I tell the truth even when I am nervous.
Choice 2
I help clean up without being asked.
Choice 3
I speak kindly when I feel frustrated.
Choice 4
I leave someone out on purpose.
Choice 5
I hide a mistake and blame someone else.
Choice 6
I obey my parents even when I would rather do something else.
Choice 7
I tease someone to make others laugh.
Choice 8
I include someone who is standing alone.
Choice 9
I return something that does not belong to me.
Choice 10
I laugh when someone makes a mistake.
Choice 11
I share supplies when someone needs them.
Choice 12
I whisper during prayer time to distract others.
Choice 13
I say sorry when I hurt someone's feelings.
Choice 14
I take the best seat and tell someone else to move.
Choice 15
I help a younger child feel welcome.
Choice 16
I ignore a leader when I am asked to help.
Choice 17
I invite someone new to join our game.
Choice 18
I roll my eyes when my parent asks me to help.
Choice 19
I tell a teacher when someone is hurt.
Choice 20
I cut in line because I want to go first.
Choice 21
I help carry supplies after the activity.
Choice 22
I hide someone else's things as a joke.
Choice 23
I say thank you when someone helps me.
Choice 24
I blame my sibling for something I did.
Choice 25
I sit reverently when it is time to listen.
Choice 26
I keep talking when someone else is sharing.
Choice 27
I help clean up a spill without being asked.
Choice 28
I whisper something mean about another person.
Choice 29
I choose not to cheat even if no one would know.
Choice 30
I grab extra treats before everyone gets one.
Choice 31
I offer to help someone who feels sad.
Choice 32
I make fun of how someone looks or talks.
Choice 33
I obey safety rules even when I want to keep playing.
Choice 34
I refuse to share because I want everything for myself.
Choice 35
I encourage someone who is trying something hard.
Choice 36
I leave a mess for someone else to clean up.
Choice 37
I tell the leader if I accidentally break something.
Choice 38
I laugh when someone gets the wrong answer.
Choice 39
I wait my turn patiently.
Choice 40
I push ahead because I do not want to wait.
Choice 41
I let someone else have a turn with my game.
Choice 42
I complain loudly when I do not get my way.
Choice 43
I stand up for someone who is being treated unkindly.
Choice 44
I keep a secret that could get someone hurt.
Choice 45
I follow directions the first time I hear them.
Choice 46
I argue because I always want to be right.
Choice 47
I say kind words to someone who feels left out.
Choice 48
I scribble on something that belongs to the church.
Choice 49
I pray and ask for help when I need guidance.
Choice 50
I say mean things online or in a group text.
Choice 51
I invite someone to sit by me.
Choice 52
I pretend not to hear when someone needs help.
Choice 53
I use respectful words when I disagree.
Choice 54
I take credit for work that someone else did.
Choice 55
I choose a clean joke that makes everyone feel included.
Choice 56
I spread a rumor because it sounds interesting.
Choice 57
I help a younger child learn the rules of a game.
Choice 58
I hide during cleanup so I do not have to help.
Choice 59
I admit when I am wrong and try to fix it.
Choice 60
I make someone feel small so I can look better.